How to stop yelling at your kids

Mar 18, 2024

"I came from a home where my parents yelled and labeled me and my siblings as ‘bad’. Now, when I get overwhelmed, I find myself yelling at my kids too, and I fear they'll remember me like I remember my parents. How can I stop myself from yelling?"

In this video we dig into a common concern among parents who grew up in homes where yelling was the norm and offer practical strategies to break the cycle of yelling.  

By acknowledging how we were raised and understanding the triggers that set us off, we can begin to move beyond our default emotional reactions and better show up as the calm and supportive parents that we want to be.  

We offer strategies for managing outbursts in the heat of the moment, but also touch on what we can do proactively to make it so those outbursts happen less and less. 

Let’s break free from the cycle of generational yelling!

 


 

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